It was a good feeling seeing an e-mail entitled, “Thank, Diane.” So, thanks for
the thanks, Heather!
Yes, I am surrounded by friends (and a sister) with husbands and/or long-term
boyfriends that they have serious “problems” with. The only two I knew who had
a happy, loving, long-lasting marriage was my own parents: which lasted 60
years, and only ended with his death in 2002. However, they were married back
in 1942. That was a different time, wasn’t it, and they DID have an
old-fashioned marriage. She looked after him and the house, he looked after the
yard and the cars! And, he was the breadwinner: went to work and brought home
enough salary for both of them. Ah, those were the days. My sister has that
now too (she doesn’t work, and her husband is the breadwinner), but she and her
husband are so estranged that, while they live in the same house, they have
SEPARATE bedrooms! *Very* Victorian, don’t you think? (They are staying
together for the kids, who will soon be out of the house as they are 15 and
18!).
–Diane